How Can YOU Be Irresistible?

I have to admit that this is my favorite secret to reveal because I honestly believe that absolutely anyone can become irresistible to the type of person they want to attract.   It isn’t about being born with perfect bone structure, having the fanciest home or wearing...

Single On St. Patrick’s Day?

Apparently, we all turn GREEN this Friday! St. Patrick’s Day is rapidly approaching and the options for fun (and for meeting someone new and exciting) are infinite. You can go to a a parade, a block party, a street festival or even just your local Irish pub. So many...

Have A Happy Valentine’s Day!

  So, Valentine’s Day is Tuesday and at this time of year we are all bombarded with overpriced flowers, heart-shaped everythings and images of fancy shmancy dinners.   Being single on Valentine’s Day can be difficult if you spend it imagining that other people are...

The 3 Best First Date Conversation Starters

So, have you ever sat across from someone on a first date while sharing awkward silence? We all have. But don’t let this ever happen to you again! Regardless of whether or not your first date leads to everlasting love with your soul mate or nothing, you can...

Make 2017 Your Best Year Yet!

  Want to feel like a rock-star in 2017 but don’t have much time or energy to make major changes in your life? Even if you’re already super busy, here are 4 quick and easy ideas for you to create an awesome 2017. After you complete them you can feel great knowing that...

How To Flirt

Almost every day someone asks me for tips on flirting so I figured I’d bring back this oldie-but-goodie dating video in which I reveal exactly how to flirt with someone attractive. I’ve personally used this advice to become happily married and I’ve also used it to...

5 Tips to Build Your Self-Esteem

The post below is a summary of an article written by Nada Lena. You can read the full article along with many other great articles and podcasts here: RiseUpForYou.com   Every single minute of your life is a chance for you to change for the better. Here are 5 tips to...

Want To Be Sexier? Do Yoga.

Who doesn’t want to be sexier? Anyone … Anyone … Bueller? I’ve been doing yoga for many years and it has been always made me feel heavenly so when Naomi Shaw asked me if she could write an article about how yoga can make you sexier I said an enthusiastic, “YES!” Below...

Have Fun, Get Fit and Be Sexy.

As I’m sure you know by now, I very much believe that confidence, charm, and positivity are all very attractive and count a lot when you’re looking to meet someone special. But let’s face it, being fit counts too. I’m all about being healthy in every respect so when...

My 3 Best First Date Tips

Have you ever gone on what you thought was a great first date and then heard only the sound of crickets afterwards? We all have but if you don’t want that to ever happen again I invite you to watch this 3-minute dating video in which I reveal my 3 best first date...

Send Flirty Texts They’ll Love

Sending flirty texts to someone attractive who you don’t know very well can be a little intimidating. But, if you know these 3 “flirTexting” rules it can be quite easy to attract that sexy someone with flirty texts. Rule 1. FlirTexts are best when they are brief and...

How To Meet Someone New

So, how has your love life been? Have you been dating anyone interesting? If not, may I suggest that you sign up for some more dating sites/apps, go a few more singles events and ask your friends if they know anyone you might like. Spring has sprung, summer is around...

Filing Taxes and Being Single Have A Lot In Common

The deadline for filing your taxes is imminent so taxes have been on my mind lately. Recently I started wondering if perhaps your relationship with Uncle Sam has a lot to do with your romantic relationships? My theory is that there are two types of single people in...

When Online Dating Site Convo Comes To A Halt

So, you finally find someone on an online dating site with an exciting profile. You’ve messaged them a friendly, “hello” and they’ve responded. Nice! Well, not so much. You message them back and the only thing you get in return is the sound of crickets chirping....

Are you SMexy? Here’s How To Be Even More SMexy!

Are you SMexy? Being SMexy is essentially being both SMart and sEXY and it is incredibly attractive to other SMexy singles. Fortunately, it is within everyone’s reach no matter your looks or age because it is all about you looking your best and choosing your best...

Thinking Of Giving Up On Love?

Have you ever felt soooo frustrated with your love life that you decided to give up on the whole “trying to meet someone special” thingy. There have been a few times in my life when I have become so disappointed that I actually thought about it. But, fortunately I...

How To Best Enjoy Being Single On Valentine’s Day

I used to get really bummed when I was single on Valentine’s Day.  It seemed that everywhere I turned I was punched in the face with special Valentine’s Day chocolates and fancy restaurant specials.  But, then I realized that Valentine’s Day can be whatever we want it...

New Year, New Online Dating Profile!

Happy 2016! I hope it has been treating you well so far.  We are currently in the most active time for online dating and I don’t want you to miss out on a great opportunity to meet someone special online.  The window closes on Valentine’s Day so let’s get busy! In...

Let’s Get REAL About 2015, Shall We?

Happy New Year! I hope 2016 has been treating you very well so far. Did you make any New Year’s resolutions for 2016? I used to be a big fan but they haven’t really worked so well for me so I stopped. I recently learned that almost half of us make resolutions but only...

How To Keep A Fun Conversation Going

Happy Holidays and happy soon to be 2016! I hope you’ve been enjoying your December and you’ve been going to lots o’ great holiday parties. Have you ever met someone attractive at a party and felt unsure about how to keep the fun conversation going? If so, this...

How To Be Irresistible On A First Date

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend and are feeling well-fed and well-loved. I spent the day cooking and savoring everything I am grateful for. I once again want to say THANK YOU for being a part of my world. We are all so busy and the fact that you take...

How To Handle Nosy Relatives on Thanksgiving

HAPPY THANKSGIVING! The holiday of gratitude is just a few days away and if you can read this that means you are educated and have access to a computer so you much to be thankful for. But, if you’re like many people I know you may be dreading seeing your nosy...

Important First Date Tips

Lately, a lot of people have been asking me what to talk about on a first date so I figured I’d once again share this 1-minute oldie-but-goodie video with Marlo Thomas in which I reveal what NOT to discuss. Be aware that if you ignore these important first date tips...

No Contact After First Date?

Have you ever felt nervous after a great first date that you won’t hear from them again? Everybody has but fortunately there is something you can do to inspire them to want to see you again, even if they haven’t reached out to you yet. In this 1-minute...

5 Ways To Be Irresistible

After nearly 9 years of dating coaching countless men and women, I’ve discovered the secrets that cause some people to become absolutely irresistible. The best part is that you don’t have to have been born with perfect features or have acquired an unlimited bank...

Feel More Peaceful

I very much believe that when something in the past continues to haunt us despite our best efforts to ignore it, it is because there is something about the experience that we don’t want to believe is the truth. But here’s the thing, suppressing our feelings doesn’t...

You Can Be Happy Right Now!

I recently saw this meme and felt inspired to share it with you.  I’ve known people who were living in very challenging circumstances who were so happy and I’ve know millionaires with everything they could ever want who were depressed. I think happiness comes from...

It Is Time To Be Real.

Like it or not, we’ve all been there. I know I have felt the pain of losing someone’s attention that I valued and I suspect you have as well. But when we are loving up on ourselves and in touch with who we truly are we are our MOST attractive to the people who...

Now Even More Changes!

You may have noticed that I recently changed my job title, my website, my email address and where I live among other things. I haven’t told you about this yet but I’m also going to soon be launching a natural, gentle, handmade skincare line called SPARKLING SKINCARE...

Where’s The FUN?

So have you ever been somewhere doing something you don’t want to be doing? We all have and I’m guessing you have to. Maybe you are single and about to go to an event but don’t want to or maybe you are just stuck waiting on a long line that you don’t want to be on. It...

Want An INSTANT Mood Booster?

Who doesn’t, right? If you are like me, you have probably felt nervous in the not too distant past and didn’t like it. Perhaps you’ve felt anxious about a project at work or maybe you were uneasy about seeing someone you know. For all those times when you’ve wanted a...

Wanna Meditate?

About a decade ago I went to my first meditation class. This instructor was world-renowned and I was so excited to go to Union Square to experience what everyone was raving about.  I arrived early and took my spot on the floor along with everyone else. As the class...

“Begin with the end in mind.”

Happy May! Can you believe we are already in the 5th month of 2015??? I can’t. This year is flying by and I really want us all to make it as fantastical as ever. As you know I’ve been making some changes in my life and so I recently rewrote my vision about what I want...

Why Confidence Is So Important

The other day I went horseback riding in Griffith Park.  I love being in nature, I love animals, and it was a beautiful sunny day outside so I was enjoying myself. I noticed that some of the people in the back of the group were having a hard time riding their horses....

When to Introduce Date to Friends?

Have you ever wondered when is the right time to introduce your date to your friends? If you do it too early, it could interfere with your connection. If you do it too late, it could become an issue. In this quick dating video Craig Rogers of 1FineD8.com and I reveal...

Ever Get Hit On By Someone MARRIED?

Have you ever been hit on by someone who was married? I know I have and while it can be flattering it can also be super sleazy. In this quick dating video Craig Rogers of 1FineD8.com and I share exactly what to do about it. After you watch, let’s discuss! So, have any...

Dating Someone Overweight?

Have you ever dated someone overweight or has your date ever been bothered by your weight? In this quick dating video Craig Rogers of 1FineD8.com and I share exactly what to do about it. After you watch, let’s discuss! So, what are your thoughts on weights and dates?...

Single on Valentine’s Day? Perfect!

So, Valentine’s Day is next weekend and at this time of year we are all bombarded with overpriced flowers, heart-shaped everythings and images of fancy shmancy dinners. Being single on Valentine’s Day can be difficult but it can also be an awesome opportunity to...

When To Ask For A Second Date

On an almost daily basis I am asked, “when is the best time to ask for a second date?” In this quick dating video Craig Rogers of 1FineD8.com and I answer this exact question. After you watch, let’s discuss! So, what are your thoughts on when to ask for a second date?...

The Best FIRST DATE Advice

Happy 2015! January is the MOST exciting month to be single because it is the busiest month for online dating sites.  If you want to get a second date with that cutie you need to know how to give a great first date. In the dating video below I reveal 3 steps you must...

How To Get A Date 🙂

Happy Holidays and HAPPY NEW YEAR! What better gift can you give yourself in 2015 than going on a date with someone you are super excited about!!! In this quick dating video Craig Rogers of 1FineD8.com and I reveal how to get a date with someone you don’t know but are...

How Much To Spend On A Date?

Happy Holidays! I hope that whatever you choose to celebrate about this season brings you happiness, peace and joy. It is so easy to spend so much money during this time but that is not always the best decision. Speaking of spending money, what do you think is the...

First Date KISS?

So, do you usually enjoy a FIRST DATE KISS? In this quick dating video Craig Rogers of http://www.1FineD8.com and I duke it out over the first date kiss. After you watch, let’s discuss! So, what are your thoughts on the first date kiss? When do you usually have that...

Single On Thanksgiving? Good.

THANKSGIVING is rapidly approaching and if you feeling uncomfortable about being single on that day you aren’t alone. In fact, over 40% of Americans over the age of 18 are single so there are plenty of people who know how you feel. There are also plenty of people who...

Is Your Date GENEROUS To Others?

How important is it to you to date someone generous and charitable? In this quick dating video Craig Rogers of http://www.1FineD8.com and I share what to do if you are dating someone who has a different level of “charitablity” than you. After you watch, let’s discuss!...

Date and Pet Can’t Get Along?

Have you ever had a breakup because of an inability to get along with a pet? In this quick dating video the super funny Craig Rogers of http://www.1FineD8.com and I share what to do if your dog and your date don’t get along. After you watch, let’s discuss! So, what...

My Best Online Dating Tip

Are you meeting sexy singles online? If not, you are missing out on great opportunities because practically everyone who is single is online. In this quick dating video I have a blast sharing my best online dating tip with the super funny Craig Rogers of...

What Does RUDE Dining Etiquette Mean?

Have you ever been on a date with someone who was RUDE to other people? It can make you feel uncomfortable but what does this dining etiquette REALLY mean for your relationship? In this dating video I have a blast speaking about this topic with the super funny Craig...

Are you UNDATEABLE?

On 11.19.14, Craig Rogers, Michele Chalupka and I will be hosting a FURtastic singles event benefit for Animal Haven, an amazing nonprofit animal shelter in Soho. We guarantee you’ll meet a lot of sexy singles and have a most pleasurable time. We look forward to...

Are they EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE?

Have you ever felt frustrated  by someone’s level of efforts to see you? Ugh, of course you have! It happens to the best of us and in this dating video I share exactly what you can do if you find yourself interested in someone emotionally unavailable. After you watch,...

My Best Breakup Advice

Lately my life has been going very well overall.  But I’ve certainly had my share of challenges, especially when I was single. Dating can be a lot of fun but it can also be difficult at times.  It all worked out for me in the end and I’m now happily married.  But like...

Trouble Finding the RIGHT Person?

Many single ladies and single guys tell me they are decent at meeting new people but are having trouble finding the RIGHT person. In this dating video I share exactly how to identify the right person for you so that you don’t end up wasting your precious time and...

How To Meet A Stranger

There are about 100 million single people living in the USA alone and some of them happen to be quite sexy. If you want to learn how to meet a stranger, check out this 1-minute dating video. With this quick and simple tip it really can be easy to meet a Cutie you...

My Visualization Techniques That Work!

You can probably tell by the paw prints that this video is different. I created this video because I was feeling overwhelmed with happiness and I wanted to share the moment with you. A few months ago I used a visualization technique in which I imagined that I would...

Good First Date Ideas

Let’s face it, the only way to get a second date with that Cutie is to be your best self on the first date. In this 1-minute video I share some good first date ideas which will have your Cutie desperate for more, more and more. After you watch, let’s discuss! So, what...

Online Dating Profile Tips

If you’re not meeting quality people online it is probably time for you to tweak your online dating profile a little. Since your photo is what everyone looks at first and decides either “yah” or “nay” it is probably the most important part. In this quick video I share...

How to Get What You Want From A Man

Last weekend I went to Union Square with the flirt squad and had a blast answering everyone’s dating questions. Ladies, if you have ever wondered how to get what you want from a man I think you are going to really enjoy this 1-minute video. Gentlemen, if you have you...

My 5 Favorite FLIRTING Tips!

Flirting is one of life greatest pleasures.  But if you don’t know how to flirt with someone you’re attracted to then I think you are really going to enjoy the “5 Fun Flirting Tips” article I recently wrote for DigitalRomanceInc.com.  In that article I shared that...

REAL Reason Most People Are Single

First and foremost, Happy Father’s Day! Today I’m feeling very grateful to have been raised by such an amazing man.  I love my dad very much and I feel very grateful to have him in my life.   We all have dads and we wouldn’t be here without them.  I hope you are...

Become A Confident Flirt This Summer!

Who DOESN’T want to flirt with Cuties this summer? Yeah, I didn’t think so so stop what you are doing and watch the best video I’ve ever created so you can learn once and for all how to flirt and leave that Cutie desperate for more, more and more. If you have any...

Want To Date Someone In A Relationship?

So, let’s be real right now shall we? Have you ever been interested in someone who is already in a relationship? We all know people who have done it and maybe even YOU have? If you’ve ever even wondered about whether on not you should go for it you need to watch this...

Common DUMP_WORTHY Dating Mistakes

As a dating coach I am constantly hearing about dates which have the good, the bad, and the ugly. So many people are making seemingly innocent mistakes which are getting them dumped and I don’t want that to happen to you or anyone you know. In this oldie-but-goodie...

Where To Meet YOUR Type Of Cutie!

Below is an excerpt from my new book, “Flirt For Fun & Meet The One: Dating Secrets From The Dateologist” Meeting new people, flirting, and getting hot dates is a skill that can be practiced everywhere you go. People always ask me where to go to meet someone new...

They Haven’t Returned The Text YET?

Lately I’ve been getting so many questions about texting and what it all means so I decided to bring back this oldie-but-goodie  45-second video in which I answer the question…what is a reasonable TEXTpectation???  If you’ve ever felt angst about someone you’re...

How Important Is AGE In Dating?

Do you think YOUR AGE affects your relationship chances and/or are you a little judgey about dating someone of a certain age? If so you need to stop what you are doing and watch this 40-second video in which I share how important age really is in a relationship. Then,...

CHEAP Dates

So Tuesday is tax day, yippee, RIGHT? Don’t get me wrong, I’m very grateful to live in the USA and enjoy all of the benefits it offers. But I have to admit that paying taxes isn’t fun.  Speaking of taxes and fun, I thought tax time would be a great time to suggest...

How To Meet A Cutie Coworker

Unless you’ve been living under a rock you’ve probably known some couples who have met at work.  Perhaps even you have dabbled in the office pool? Regardless, if there is a Cutie in your office who you’d like to meet I think you are really going to this 1-minute video...

You’re STILL Not Exclusive?

There is a right way and a wrong way to handle someone who you want to be serious with who hasn’t shown interest in being serious with you. If you handle it poorly you could get dumped or even worse you could waste your precious time. If you handle it well you could...

What Is “TMI” On A First Date?

Inherent in first dates is the difficult balance of authentically being who you really are while getting to know someone (who is essentially a stranger) to see if there is a possible connection. But there are definite rules to follow and if you break them you’ll be...

How To Tell If Your Date Is Lying?

It is normal to want to make a great impression on a date and to emphasize characteristics which we think our date will be attracted to. But some people take that a little too far and actually fudge the truth. If you’ve ever suspected that your date has lied to you...

Can Relationships With BIG Age Differences Work?

We’ve all known couples in which there was a BIG age difference between the two people, but can May/December relationships really work out well over the long-term? If you or someone you know is even thinking about dating someone born in a different decade I invite you...

Should You Give Up on Love?

I’ve recently had several single men and women tell me that the fact that they were single on Valentine’s Day was FRUSTRATING. They are thinking of throwing in the towel with this whole “trying to meet someone special” thingy. If you or someone you know is thinking...

Single on Valentine’s Day? Good!

At this time of year we are all bombarded with overpriced flowers, heart-shaped everythings and images of fancy shmancy dinners. Valentine’s Day is clearly meant for that special someone in your life but who says that special someone can’t be you? For Valentine’s Day...

What To Do When The Conversation Comes To A Halt

Have you ever been speaking with a Cutie and run out of great topics to discuss? In this 1 minute video I share exactly what you should do to keep the fun conversation going and keep your Cutie interested. After you watch it we’d love to hear from you in the comments...

How To Meet A Cutie In A Bar

Have you noticed someone hot and sexy in a bar but you weren’t sure what to do or what to say to them? In this 1 minute video I answer a woman’s question about exactly what you can do to get your flirt on with that intriguing stranger. After you watch it we’d love to...

Where To Meet Someone New in 2014!

Do you want to meet someone new and exciting in 2014? Well, if you live in a big city like NY or LA it can be easy because singles are everywhere! In this 1 minute video I answer a woman’s question about exactly what you should do in order to meet tons of new and...

Realize Your Dreams In 2014!

I hope you’ve been having a wonderful holiday season.  There are just 2 days left in 2013 and so I want to take this opportunity to thank you for being a part of my community this year.  It has been an incredible year and I’m deeply grateful to have been able to help...

Interested in Someone Who Is Taken?

Have you ever been attracted to someone who was already in a relationship? I’m assuming you have because everybody I know has at some point or another. In this 1-minute video I share exactly what you need to do if you are interested in someone who is already taken....

Not Hear After A First Date?

Have you ever felt nervous after a great date that you won’t hear from them again? Everybody has but fortunately there is something you can do about it to inspire them to want to see you again, even if they haven’t reached out to you yet.  In this 1-minute video I...

Are You Shy Around New Cuties?

When you see someone attractive who you’d love to meet do you start to feel uncomfortable? If so, you are not alone. I hear that every day from single men and women and it is really bad because if you don’t meet new people you could miss out on meeting someone who is...

The Best Way To End A Date

Over the years I’ve had many clients tell me that they feel a little uncomfortable ending a date, especially if they are interested in seeing their date again. So in this 1-minute video I speak with Marlo Thomas and share a few of my favorite tips for ending a date....

Dating Mistakes Which Get You Dumped

Yesterday I was invited to help singles going through a bad breakup at the www.exaholics.com booth at the Health and Wellness Expo at the Jacob Javitz Center.  The exaholics.com site offers a great amount of support to people who are having trouble healing from a...

Is Your Date Or An Ex Right For You?

Have you ever wondered if the person you are dating is right for you or if you should contact an ex to see if they are right for you? Of course you have, we all have!  In the 48 second video below I provide a few questions to ask yourself so you can easily decide what...

Are They Too Busy To Return A Text?

Have you ever wondered why your love interest hasn’t responded to your text message right away? In the video below I talk about what is and isn’t a reasonable TEXTpectation. After you watch it I’d love to hear from you. How long do you think is a reasonable amount of...

How To Flirt With Men

Flirting is a key part of dating and it is essential for keeping that Cutie attracted to you. In the video below I speak with Suzanne Oshima, the founder of “Single In Stilettos” about some of my favorite flirting tips. The video is targeted towards helping women...

Does Love At First Sight Exist?

Every once in a while I’m asked if love at first sight exists and in this video I name all of the many things can happen at first sight.  But is love included? You’ll have to watch the video to find out! After you watch it I’d love to hear from you.  Have you ever...

Crushin’ On A Coworker?

In this dating video I reveal exactly what you need to do if you have a crush on a cutie coworker.  We all know married couples who met at the office so if you’ve been checking out one of your coworkers you can absolutely turn that professional relationship into a...

How To Have An Attractive Energy

When I begin coaching many of my clients, they often feel frustrated by their lack of success in their love lives. But a frustrated energy is an unattractive energy and that energy will get in the way of moving their love life forward.  There will always be someone or...

The 3 Best First Date Tips

In this dating video I reveal the 3 steps you must take in order to get another date with this cutie. I’ve personally used this advice to become happily married and I’ve also used it to help countless single ladies and single men turn dates into boyfriends and...

How To Have Chemistry

Having sexy chemistry is what separates a romantic relationship from a friendship and if you are interested in someone romantically you are going to want them to feel sparks for you too.  Fortunately there is a lot you can do to inspire them to feel chemistry for you....

Single on Valentines Day?

If you are like a lot of the single people I coach you may not be feeling great about Thursday’s holiday. Believe me when I tell you that you are not the only one who isn’t spending Thursday having a fancy shmancy dinner with your gorgeous lover while drinking...

Oh Sandy.

There is destruction all over the east coast and this week has been a difficult one. I know many still don’t have power and some have been severely affected by Hurricane Sandy. This devastating event has caused many of us to feel vulnerable. If you are feeling a...

The Most Romantic Movies

One of my favorite things to do is watch movies and below is a list of five of the most romantic ones. I think these are a great way to spend a relaxing summer evening! 1. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind – Joel and Clementine’s decision to try their relationship...

Texting and Dating

Texting is a big part of dating these days and it can be a great way to let your special someone know you are thinking of them. But, there are rules to doing it right and if you break one it could be disastrous. Watch my vlog and then let me know your thoughts on...

Online Dating Safety Tips

The article below was written by Kara Yacovone after interviewing me.  Kara is my new intern and I’m so excited she has joined us this summer! Have you ever wondered how much information you should reveal to someone you met online? A part of you may be excited to tell...

How To Be A Confident Flirt

As a dating coach and flirting expert, people tell me practically every day that they wish they could feel more confident flirting with someone they are attracted to. If you have wished you could feel more confident flirting as well, let me assure you that it can be...

Super Bowl Party Tips

I  hope you are having a great weekend so far and that you are spending tonight at a Super Bowl party filled with attractive singles. If you don’t have a party to go to, head over to a local bar because it is a great night to meet someone new. Regardless of where you...

Be “SMexy”

Being “SMexy” is about having both smarts and sex appeal and it is within everyone’s reach no matter your looks or age. SMexy people look their best and think their best and they always seem to have attractive people wanting to be around them. Below are my top 3 tips...

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you have a great celebration and that you’ve been taking time to give thanks for everything good in your life. I’m often asked how I’m able to be so bubbly all the time. I’m going to share with you my secret in the hopes that it will help...

Flirting Tips

On an almost daily basis people tell me that they don’t feel confident about their ability to flirt with someone they find attractive. If you feel that way, I recommend that you think of flirting as essentially a playful attitude which communicates that you are...

Have You Had Enough Fun Lately?

When I first meet many of my clients they are overworked and starving for fun. While working hard is great, hard work without fun can make you very unhappy and can even lead you to behave in unhealthy ways. The best way to avoid malnutrition in the fun department is...

Wanna Flirt More?

I hope you had a great weekend filled with flirting and fun.  If you didn’t, I recommend that the next time you see someone attractive you smile and say hello. Then, ask them a question about something in the environment. Anything you see, hear, taste, touch is a...

Questions with Interesting Answers

As a coach, I often ask certain questions which help my clients figure out what they deeply want in life and the best way to get it.  Below are a few of the questions I often ask.  I’m sharing them with you so that you could ask yourself these questions.  I have seen...

What is a Dateologist?

In the article below I share some of my favorite tips for single men and women during an interview with Natalie Bencivenga, founder of www.TwoDayMag.com. Her online magazine is filled with great advice and I highly recommend it. An interview with twoday contributor...

Now is the Time.

I hope you had a great Labor Day weekend.  Now that the lazy days of summer are mostly behind you, it is a great time to think about what goals you REALLY want to achieve. Many people find that the biggest challenge in achieving any goal, is to stay motivated and...

Lookin’ Good At the Beach

Now that beach season in full swing, you may have had a few, “is this really how my body looks?” thoughts.  Next time you are tempted to think negatively about your body parts, I recommend that you instead focus on what your body is capable of. Worship your legs for...

Fun and Creative Summertime Date Ideas

The weather’s warmer and the days are longer, and summer is a great time of year for romantic, outdoor dates.  Here are 10 creative and fun ways to make the most of your summertime dates: 1.  Bring some delicious food, a bottle of wine, and a blanket for a picnic. 2. ...

Turn Bad Habits into Good

All of us have some unhealthy habits we’d like to change into healthy habits. When you become sick and tired of your unhealthy habit, you can use my 4 step plan to become healthier.  Here is my 4 step plan: 1.  Write a list of the reasons you want to change your bad...

Having Bullet-Proof Confidence

Imagine how amazing you would feel if you had bullet-proof confidence every day of your life. Here are a few ways to give yours a boost and help get you on your way. AWESOME COMPLIMENTS- If you receive a compliment take it at face value. So, if a co-worker tells you...

Want to Get Married Later in Life?

If you are not yet married, but would like to be….no worries!  People who get married later in life are more likely to live together beforehand and know what they are getting into.  The relationship is also more likely to last and less likely to divorce.  Last month...

Want to Get Happy Quick?

My husband and I recently adopted a cat named Lilly (sitting on the chair) who had been rescued by an amazing organization called All Sentient Beings. Lilly had been abandoned by her previous owners and left to fend for herself one freezing cold night in December. As...

The Best (And Worst) Pick Up Lines

“We’ve all been there. There you are, sitting at the bar, a cute guy walks up to you and….says the worst pick up line you have ever heard. So bad, in fact, that you want to throw a drink in his face. Or, that cute girl that was staring at you from across the bar...

The Worst That Can Happen…

The worst thing that can happen is not that you fail, it is that you think of ourself as a failure and give up. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team, Steven Spielberg was placed in a learning disabled class, and JK Rowling’s Harry Potter...

Are you Hard on Yourself?

Do you often find yourself thinking that you are lazy, lack willpower, or that you just aren’t good enough for whatever it is that you want? If the person making these comments to you is, well, you, it is time to stop.  The more you say negative comments to yourself...

How To Get What You Want

When my clients first start working with me they often tell me that the reason they haven’t yet achieved their goals is because something is preventing them. Some tell me it is because of their appearance, their age, their parents, their past relationships, their lack...

Want to be more magnetic?

Let me tell you this right off the bat, being magnetic is NOT about looking like Scarlett Johansson or Ryan Reynolds.  If it was those two would have been happily married at birth and stayed married. The secret to being magnetic is to live in the moment and bring your...

Want a deeply fulfilling relationship?

If you would like to be in a deeply fulfilling relationship, I recommend you choose 5 absolutely necessary characteristics which you would be devastated if your partner didn’t have.  For example, perhaps you love traveling and would feel terribly unfulfilled if you...

Tips for May/December relationships

Romantic relationships are considered to be “May/December” when the younger person is in the “spring” of their life and the older person is in the “winter” of their life and the couple’s ages are at least a decade apart. There are plenty examples of celebrities who...

Do you flirt well?

Flirting can be a lot of fun but you may be someone who finds it a little scary. Let me assure you that it’s a skill that you can improve with practice, it is just like any other skill. Flirting is essentially a way of communicating which shows that you are enjoying...

Got dumped?

Getting dumped sucks and it has happened to all of us. One of the hardest things to accept is the end of a relationship. Immediately after it happens you deserve applause for even making a sandwich. Soon after your friends will probably start nudging you out of the...

My response to “Why You’re Not Married”

I’m a happily married dating coach who has helped a countess number of men and women meet, date, and marry the people right for them. I have practically fallen in love with every person I have ever worked with and when I first read this article my initial instinct was...

Being happy on Valentine’s Day

Aw, yes, Valentine’s Day will soon be upon us. For those in a relationship, the panic may have already set in…what should we do on Valentine’s Day? Will I need a reservation? Is it too late? How far in advance do you have to plan for this damn holiday, anyway?  For...